17 year relationship, we have a 16 year old, he cheated and has an 11 year old he brought home last year. He is sharing custody and paying this person child support but can’t pay any bills at our house or help with our child. I am dropping both kids off at school and supplying other needs. I can’t do this anymore. He won’t move out and I own the home and paid all the bills for 20 years now. I can’t and won’t mistreat a child but I need a way out of this. I’m drowning in debt trying to do this.